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Saturday, September 20, 2014

Late Night Questions

"Are you heading to bed soon? If so, are you going to go to bed in a clean and organized bedroom, with happy kids in your home? Are you going to lie down feeling totally content and satisfied with your day? Happy with the direction your life is headed?
"If not, Erin, then please don't waste another day like this. You were meant for more!!"

I got this email the other weekend. I thought I would share my (somewhat annoyed and a bit sarcastic) answers here:

Are you heading to bed soon? Yes - I am. For the record, I happened to check my email right before bed the day I received this. I don't normally do that, nor do I normally open the emails from this company. But, I needed to take Mary out (in the rain) and was trying to give Will a chance to relax and not scream about not getting to go outside. 

If so, are you going to bed in a clean and organized bedroom? No - I am not. I have enjoyed my day of total rest (the first in twelve days) and did not bother to clean and organize my bedroom today. 

With happy kids in your home? No - I do not have kids. But, hey thanks for thinking that I am less of a woman because of that one fact. I do have two dogs, a husband who works really hard, a full-time job outside of the home, and a rich family life on both sides. My life and plate are completely full.

Are you going to lie down feeling totally content and satisfied with your day? Yes - I am! I have enjoyed a day of doing nothing in fact... I read one whole book and parts of two other books. I snuggled with my min-pins. I worked outside. I spent time with my husband's family celebrating our September birthdays (there are five of them and an anniversary!). And for the first time in a while I feel de-stressed and relaxed. 

Happy with the direction your life is headed? Actually, yes! You see, you may think my life is a disaster (I think you think this because of your follow-up statement, "please don't waste another day like this. You were meant for more!!"), but I happen to like it. I am married to the most wonderful man in the world and we have so much love for each other, it might make some people sick. We have two amazing dogs that fill our home with happiness, excitement and joy. We don't have our future figured out, but that's because we don't know what it holds. We trust that Someone Else has a plan for our future and will work it out for us.

So no, I won't be buying your product, but I will be going to bed in a room that is messy and chaotic, but filled with love. In a bed that doesn't ever get made so that Mary and Will can find a place to chill when they need it. I will enjoy not having kids, because once it happens, I won't ever be able to do it again. I will lay down with a content sigh and a prayer of thanksgiving for all that I have had the privilege to do today. And I will rejoice that I don't have to have all of life's answers. 

Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Rebels (Safelands #3) by Jill Williamson

Rebels is the conclusion to the Safelands trilogy by Jill Williamson. The first two books, Captives and Outcasts, were good and I was eager to read Rebels. It did not disappoint. If you haven’t read the first two books, be warned that this will likely contain spoilers for them.





Picking up where Outcasts leaves off, we find that the Glenrock remnant is headed underground. Mason and Omar are headed for liberation which most think means death. Levi now fully bears the mantle of leadership for his people and it is a heavy burden. The Owl figure who Omar created to show truth to the Safe-Landers will have to be resurrected with help from the Kindred. The Kindred are the underground group of which rebel leader, Ruston, is a member. They welcome the Glenrock remnant, but not fully. Shaylinn especially will have to figure out these new, tenuous relationships.


Rebels was full of plot twists and turns. I don’t want to give anything away, but it was definitely a fast-paced read. I didn’t want to put it down and when I had to, I kept finding myself wondering what was going to happen. Something I have mentioned before, Williamson continually changes the perspective of the story. I liked this as it provided a complete story that showed what each character was facing. This was handled very well and I never once had to figure out who the focus was on at any point.

I highly recommend this trilogy. It draws from the story of Daniel in the Bible and his experiences in Babylonian captivity. There are lots of other themes throughout the series, but I like that the themes of loving others (espcially those who have a different lifestyle) and family are the most resonant. Rebels was a great conclusion to the story and really seemed to wrap up all of the loose ends that come from the other books.  

A copy of this book was provided to me by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Life Together


Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction and faithful in prayer. Share with the Lord's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord."On the contrary: 
"If your enemy is hungry, feed him, 
If he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head."

Do not overcome evil with evil, but overcome evil with good.


When I read this passage early this year it hit me like a ton of bricks. This was it. This was the secret to living. I read and read it. Then I walked away and started to forget about it.

Recently heartbreak has been entering the lives of our loved ones (our framily) and this verse keeps coming to mind. 


Mourn with those who mourn. 


We mourn with each other because it helps to know that others hearts have broken because of your broken heart. It makes the road of life easier to travel on when there is someone with you to hold you up, when you want to sit down, cry and just stop going.

Friday, September 12, 2014

Nashville Season Three: What I Know

Sometimes, I see things when they are shooting "Nashville" (the TV show) around Nashville (the city). I love that the show is shot here in town and think that it adds a great level of authenticity to it. So here are a few things I've noticed recently:

1. There is a scene in a red car. Well, that or someone was shooting a music video. But it was interesting to see how it was shot. The red car (it was sporty looking, but I think it was sedan not a convertible) was on the bed of a trailer with the crew and equipment. Two cars (another sedan and an SUV) were following. 

2. There is a detention center involved. I saw the sign on a building that is not a detention center, so there's that. 

3. Michael Logen (an alumni of my university) and a fabulous singer/songwriter recorded some music and interview for the show. This MAKES my day. Logen is one of my favorites and I can't wait to see what happens with his music! 

So anyway I am super stoked about the Season Three premier on September 24. Its on abc, in case you weren't sure where to find it. If I'm ever an extra I will be sure to let you know about. Also, if I ever happen to run into Connie Britton or Hayden Panetierre in the mall, I will be sure to let you know. 

I'm off to make a note to start going to the mall more regularly.